Celebrate! The Prodigal Has Returned!

There are a myriad of reasons for people to celebrate. They may include the desire to build community, to foster a sense of gratitude, to create memories and traditions, or to mark the reaching of a milestone. In some instances celebration erupts out of a fortunate turn of events. When the circumstances seem least favorable, the storm clears, and the light shines in.

In the Gospel of Luke, we read of such events. Jesus shares three parables detailing the loss and the somewhat unexpected recovery of three valuable items. The first is a sheep that is separated from the rest of the flock and is lost in the “open country”

(Luke 15:1-7). Despite having ninety-nine other sheep, their owner searches for the lost sheep until it is found. The second is a valuable coin that likely represents one tenth of a woman’s dowry (Luke 15:8-10). She tirelessly searches her home until it too is found. Finally, Jesus tells of a son who demands his father give him his inheritance early (Luke 15:11-32). His intention is to leave home, never to return.

After squandering his entire fortune, the lost son is forced to sleep in a pig pen and eat their slop. Coming to his senses, he makes his way home to his father who has been longing to embrace his son upon his long awaited return. What makes each of the stories so wonderful is the ecstatic response in light of each astonishing discovery.

In each instant the owner gives an invitation to rejoice and celebrate the return of the lost sheep, the lost coin, and the lost son.

Forgiveness and its result – reconciliation – are the aim when relationships are in an unfavorable condition. When wrongs drive a wedge between two parties and cause separation, pain, and bitterness forgiveness aims to bring the parties back together.

True forgiveness approaches the repentant wrongdoer with open arms. Its goal is full restoration. The formerly prodigal son was embraced by his father and fully restored as indicated by the robe, ring, and shoes. Regardless of the outcome, forgiveness is not an option, but an obligation. Most importantly, as we forgive “one another, as God in Christ forgave” us (Eph 4:32), let us rejoice and celebrate when a wrongdoer repents.

Luke 15:22-24 (ESV) – “But the father said to his servants, ‘Bring quickly the best robe, and put it on him, and put a ring on his hand, and shoes on his feet. And bring the fattened calf and kill it, and let us eat and celebrate. For this my son was dead, and is alive again; he was lost, and is found.’ And they began to celebrate.

Forgiveness: Easier Said Than Done

Forgiving those who have wronged you is hard. The reasons for this are plenty. One reason we struggle forgiving is because we feel as if, by doing so, we are approving of those hurtful actions. Another reason we struggle with forgiving is because we are afraid of being vulnerable and possibly being hurt again. Sometimes, we avoid forgiveness, because cutting ties or walking away from a relationship takes less effort. Lastly, many of us simply don’t know how to truly forgive.

In writing to the believers in Corinth, Paul reminds them that their responsibility to love, serve, and forgive is ultimately rooted in their new transformed relationship with Jesus: “… if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come” (2 Cor 5:17). Believers are “in Christ.” Our identity has been so radically changed that it has turned our relationship to others on its head. It is His lavish love (1 Jn 4:19), His sacrificial service (Mk 10:45), and His perfect forgiveness (Eph 4:32) that must become our constant motivation to put the one-anothers into practice.

However, all three of these “community graces” are difficult even for believers to put into practice, because they demand mortifying the flesh and living by the Holy Spirit (Rom 8:13). Only born-again believers can fully fathom what true love, servitude, and forgiveness mean and how they are practiced, because they have experienced these graces personally. Even so, it involves a constant surrendering of our natural inclination to retaliate and the need of trusting God to be just. For further study, meditate on these verses for biblical guidance on forgiveness: Matt 5:21-22; Psalm 51:4; Matt 18:31; Matt 5:23-24; Rom 12:14, 19.

It has been said, “Do only what is required of you and remain a slave. Do more than is required and become free.” Our natural tendency is to hold others captive in their sin by avoiding the painful but necessary transaction that leads to reconciliation. In doing so, we imprison ourselves! Consider allowing the Word of God to remind you of Christ’s radical forgiveness and permit the Holy Spirit to press you beyond your fear and pride. Free both yourself and others held captive by the shackles of bitterness and unforgiveness.

Ephesians 4:31-32 (ESV) – “Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

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