Equipped to Make a Difference

Perspective matters.

Erwin Lutzer, in his book, Failure: the Back Door to Success, illustrates this by sharing this little story:

A man who was losing his memory went to the doctor for advice. He received this diagnosis from the doctor, “We cannot help your memory without impairing your eyesight. Now the choice is yours. Would you rather be able to see or to remember?” The man thoughtfully replied, “Frankly, I’d rather have my eyesight than my memory. You see, I’d rather see where I am going than remember where I’ve been.”

While the man’s perspective seldom crosses our mind, the hope of our glorious future with Christ infinitely eclipses the stuff that this world has to offer. This perspective affects the way we navigate the troubles and heartaches of life, either increasing our anxiety or improving our resolve.

Our perspective also has a bearing on ministry. According to Ephesians 4:11-16, believers are to be equipped for the “work of the ministry” or service. In order to be a difference-maker in serving God and others, it requires asking some tough questions and answering them with unflinching fearless honesty. The questions that we need to ask ourselves are, “Am I a getter or a giver?”, “Will I consume or contribute?”, and “Do I expect others to serve me or look to serve others?” How you answer these questions make your ministry perspective crystal clear. If you desire to contribute, give, and serve, stewarding your God-given gifts and talents for His kingdom, your ministry perspective is theocentric or “God-centered”. If, on the other hand, you simply plan to consume, get, and be served, your ministry perspective is egocentric or “self-centered”, leading to a lonely life devoid of joy and meaning.

May our “God-centeredness” be demonstrated in Christlikeness, stability, cooperation, as well as truth joined to love. These will establish lasting fruit and an eternal reward coming from the lips of our Master: “Well done!”

1 Corinthians 3:12-15 (NIV) – “Now if anyone builds on the foundation with gold, silver, precious stones, wood, hay, straw – each one’s work will become manifest, for the Day will disclose it, because it will be revealed by fire, and the fire will test what sort of work each one has done. If the work that anyone has built on the foundation survives, he will receive a reward. If anyone’s work is burned up, he will suffer loss, though he himself will be saved, but only as through fire.”

What Are the Needs and Opportunities Around Me?

Let me get this out into the open… The neighborhood in which my wife and I live has caused a seasonal sore spot over the years. However, it’s not its location, the neighbors, or their demeanor that has caused this nagging agitation. On the contrary. We chose this home and its location more than twenty years ago because of its proximity to the church, its reputation for offering an excellent elementary school, and its quaint charm. We have very much enjoyed the neighborhood cookouts, the holiday decorations, and the many sidewalk conversations. So, what’s the problem you ask?

The issue springs from the grass being greener on the other side – literally. Maybe it’s simply my imagination, but everybody else’s lawn up and down our street simply looks a little bit greener and thicker than ours. Our lawn consists of brown patches, soft and marshy areas, and clumpy weeds that choke out the grass that would otherwise be present. The roots of our three trees have created an undulating landscape that is filled with nodules and bumps. Don’t even get me started on what it’s like to mow the lawn! I am sure my little push-mower has taken a beating over the years, but there is no way a riding-mower would survive our yard!

While this may sound quite ridiculous and funny, the truth is that when it comes to serving the Lord and one another, the grass often appears to be greener on the other side (of the street). It is not uncommon for us to look at the opportunities and influence that others have been given and feel just a little bit slighted.

There are two common ways that we respond to this slight, neither of which foster a humble servant’s heart:

First, we are convinced that if we simply learn more and work longer or harder, the tangible, visible, and more importantly, substantial results that we desire will ensue. If this is your perspective, remember the words of the Apostle Paul: “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them” (Eph 2:10). We are simply to walk in “good works” (service) which God has prepared for us in advance. We have no capacity to improve on what God has already established.

Second, if we deem our service to be insignificant or unimpressive, we will likely neglect to do it altogether. From our perspective, if the result doesn’t meet our expectations, the service isn’t worth doing. We want our ministry to count – to make a difference! However, God’s Word indicates that “Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ” (Col 3:23-24).

Apparently, every service – no matter how small – matters if done for the Lord.

So, how can we find joy in serving in our part of the neighborhood, as we tend to our yard? Consider doing the little things. Serve in ways that are, for all intents and purposes, unnoticed. Weed your lawn, by checking your motivation. And grow where you are planted, by seizing the opportunities right around you. Most importantly, never forget to fix your eyes on the sovereign Gardener. His lavish love (1 Jn 4:19), sacrificial service (Mk 10:45), and perfect forgiveness (Eph 4:32) must be the constant motivation as we put into practice the one-anothers.

1 Peter 4:8-11 (ESV) – “Above all, keep loving one another earnestly, since love covers a multitude of sins. Show hospitality to one another without grumbling. As each has received a gift, use it to serve one another, as good stewards of God’s varied grace in order that in everything God may be glorified through Jesus Christ. To him belong glory and dominion forever and ever. Amen.”

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